Vise I think it is the time of year. I am going through a rough patch as well. I think you need to step back write down a bunch of things that you are grateful for and things that are going right in your life. I know it will not keep you from wanting what you want but it is an eye opener.
I think what you are still going through is why everyone says in house separations are very hard. You stand witness to everything everyday. I do have to say things got easier when my wife left, but as I stated I am in a rough patch right now. Not sure why but my mind is on her too much. Hopefully these come and go and stay gone a little longer.
We both know the answers that everyone is going to say we need to do, but I think time is the real answer. Even though I say that I am looking for that time to get a move on!
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15