I believe most women wait until the holidays are over before they take action. My advice is to get through next week the best you can. Don't try to persuade her about anything. Give her alone time and don't talk about the M, what she plans to do, or your feelings. Focus on the kids and showing them plenty of love and physical affection. They deserve to be excited and happy about Christmas, b/c they are kids only once.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
