Originally Posted By: Fo.2
But he's got to figure that out on his own.


This is the key. And the reason I say all is not lost. It's simply out of your hands right now. He will soon have the space he needs to choose (or choose not to) look inward.

Meanwhile, you get to rediscover what it's like to be Fo. And you even get to share a little of it with your kids - that is a real blessing

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou