Thank you SciDad. I wish my H could talk to you. Or any of the guys on this forum. Maybe I will leave him at a rest stop in NJ on our next trip north and you can go have a talk with him for me. I will gladly talk to your Wife in exchange.
I feel like its hopeless because there is more I can't say on this forum. I've said it in my past life. But he's got to figure that out on his own.