Hi SciDad, agree that you should do anything but talk.

Is your W pulling away from you specifically or from the family in general? If she is pulling away from you specifically, then you really shouldn't be trying to convince her otherwise. I was emotionally detached from my X during the M at one point in time and the more he tried to spend time with me, the more I resisted. And it really reinforced the fact that I didn't enjoy his company then.

So I would say, activities with the family would be the safer route?

Last edited by Grlonfr; 12/18/15 03:52 PM.
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It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.