I started seeing a personal therapist. I joined Alcoholics Anonymous and I am 60 days sober. I've lost 53 lbs since October 20th. I've found a marriage counselor for my wife and I, and we've been 3 times. I am finally finishing my professional licensing exams, I have 5 more to go with the first of 5 scheduled on 12-31-15. I joined a runners group in my town, and I've got what appears to be a pretty solid new friend from my time in A.A. (another LBH). Also, I pray a lot, and I go to church on the weekends by myself or with my kids.
So...I don't know how much of that counts. But it feels like I'm on a spiritual journey while my heart is stuck in limbo. This has definitely been the hardest couple of months of my life.
Me:41 - LBH in apt W:39 - WW in home Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42 M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15 (PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)
