We own the house together, if thats what you mean. Our agreement so far has been that she is paying the bills there, and I pay my bills here at the apartment. She is a professional engineer and actually makes more money than I do. Though, I don't think her financial situation is all that great with everything she has to pay for over there. Though, I have been giving her money for things we haven't split up, like cell phone payments, car insurance, and things for the kids (piano practice, etc..)

I didn't want to leave the house, and truly regret that I did. I went and met with a lawyer about a month ago and she said that it doesn't really matter that much, because if she really wanted you out she could have called the cops on you and told them a story and you'd be out anyway.

But yes, I wish I was back in the house.


Me:41 - LBH in apt
W:39 - WW in home
Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42
M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15
(PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)