Everyone, everyone, I mean everyone I talk to says I need to move on and give her the space she needs.
I dont believe that these are mutually exclusive.
Look - you need to give her space. The more you try to control or influence her, the more she will fight against you. So, yes, you need to leave her to her own doings.
But why does that mean you need to "move on"? No. I reject that idea. What you should be doing is taking a long, hard look in the mirror, and really instilling the change you want from inside of you. Figure out the man you want to be and grow into that. Only then, will you have a shot with your W anyway.
Welcome to the boards, B. Have you read Divorce Remedy?
