Yes I have started to read some of the links and they have been very helpful in putting all this into perspective. And like you said it's very interesting to see that I am not alone in this. Many people's storied are very similar to mine which has helped me to realize it's not me or our relationship that she hates.
Thank you
M:6 Years W: 40 M: 35 Same Sex Couple 4 Children
BD: April 2015 PA with O/M: April 2015 Moved Out: November 2015