Unlike most here, my W never told me directly she wants out or isn't in love with me. She just checked out. My IC says that she probably doesn't want to lose me. We'll see.
Yes I remember giving my opinion on you buying a gift. I see other situations clearer than mine. Speaking of which I think you are right to hold off on your R talk IMO.
Enjoy the time with your daughter, have a coffee and thanks for replying
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together