What Sotto said, let it go. Those things are outside of your control so why even think about them? It's you you're worried about, not them. The kids will actually manage better than we like to realize. It may not be the best situation they could be in but they will adapt and overcome all of this.

Now, how about you?

No more talk about the kids and what's best for them unless your trying to decide if it would be better to take them to a museum or the park on Saturday.

Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be