Side note: I am meeting with her on Saturday to give her grandfather his birthday gift. Should I ask her to lunch or am I supposed to wait until she asks me? I would of course keep it light, fun, upbeat, and no talk of the relationship or marriage.

My therapist here at work, who set me up with an outside individual therapist wanted me to setup a regular scheduled meeting with her, such as lunch, dinner, or a walk so we can keep in contact. I am worried that this could be flying in the face of what I am trying to accomplish.


Me:34
W:33
R: 15 years
M: 7 years
W moved out: 11/21/15
BD: 11/20/15 - ILYBINILWY, PA once
LRT: 12/14/15