This will be our longest time together since the first few weeks. I've kept my distance and conversations/texts to the minimum. If conversation turns to how are you, what are you doing? etc which she normally asks, what is the best way to respond? Is it ok to admit my feelings haven't changed but hey I'm moving on with my life? To still show concern and affection for her even if I don't ask or show interest in her current life? After all she knows I'm not going to spend Xmas and New Year with her. I've turned down the chance of the birthday lunch in family with her. I'm calmer these days and more detached but obviously I still love her.


Me:48
W:45
S:15
M:17
T: 25
Separated: Oct 2015