She's texted asking when do I want to meet to divide up accounts. I think I'll ring and invite her round today to talk it over. She's taking son to dentist to get an estimate on work on his teeth. Think it is a good chance to talk. I want to be kind, fair but firm. Inside it feels like I'm losing her more but who knows? We are barely in contact at the moment. Who knows how relationship with OM is going? Could be fantastic, could be terrible? Early days for everyone.