Hi Scrant, that seems reasonable to me. I don't recall seeing anyone regret taking steps to protect financials - but I do recall seeing people regret that they didn't.

The thing to watch for is the 'bringing her to her senses' comments. Like I posted above, best to take the view that you are doing this for yourself and for S alone. Who knows, it may shock her into sanity again...it may not. But it will do what it needs to do, and provide security for you and your S in the face of her splurging on lingerie and treating OM (who may be broke) to a nice dinner.

Good for you Srant, and keep moving forward. I don't thing being robust about financials harms your chance of R at some point going forward, so stay the course my friend x

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