All our wages go into the same account..She has yet to reply to the emails but that is likely to be because she hasn't opened the spreadsheet at home. She tends to look at stuff at work. I don't know if she'll reply but I just want to try to bring her to her senses and realize we can't maintain the current levels of spending. As I am going to parents for Christmas and later it is all a bit chaotic I'll wait until after holiday period before arranging a meeting with her. Any future division will take into account what she has spent already. I don't know if it will affect any chance of a future R, what does everyone think? Am I going the right way?
