Hi Sandi. I hear what you're saying. One complication to doing what is being suggested is that we are still living in the same house, sleeping in the same bed, etc. She originally said she's done about 4 weeks ago now and hasn't brought it up again since. I don't know if she's waiting for the holidays to come and go before she addresses it again or what. Do I just assume that it will come up again and therefore should I go GAL and do a 180 in anticipation of that?