WAW called last night and asked if i had some anti inflametry tablets her arthritis had flared up and her joints had swollen. Her car just ran out of registration and she cant drive it. I said ok but i would have to drop in later had a couple things to do, i went up about an hour later and dropped the pills off, i told her i only did it because she was in pain and left straight away, she said than you. Should i have done this? Or should i just have told her I was busy.
Yes, it was the right thing to do. I might have skipped the comment about why but no biggie.
If she asks again I'd probably do it a second time...but then I would let her know that since she has decided she no longer wants you as a husband you cannot continue to contort your life around her needs. That she needs to find alternative ways to obtain her medicine and while you empathize any pain she might suffer you will not be able to be assist should she put herself in this position again.
Unlikely to come up again, but I think this makes sense.
Well played, glad you didn't dote on her and try to be her nurse!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
