She's thinking of leaving again2

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I was wondering about you and W's financials but never got around to asking. It seems you both work but she is spending a good deal more than you are from the joint account. How much are each of you putting in though? She cant have OM and a MR with you at the same time and you certainly shouldn't be paying anything that contributes to their relationship. It seems very likely that you are right now and I would be very careful. You mentioned he has financial problems and that's a huge red flag also.