Julie and Di I think others have accepted H and OW cause he told a warped story - he told people WE grew apart and WE were unhappy for years and he made it sound amicable - that WE decided it just wasn't working anymore. But that wasn't the life I was living. I was growing closer to H we were building our retirement home and spending so much time together planning our future H was finally giving time to me and the kids and then BD out he walked "needing space" He has devastated our family - the kids - his parents - my family