So all of this considered, I just don't know where to start with the DR steps. I can't go dark because she thinks I'm not communicating with her to begin with. I don't feel like I can do a 180, because I feel like that would create more of a disconnection and would make her feel worse about us. I don't feel like I can GAL (or at least it seems) for the same reason that I don't feel like I can do a 180. And I don't feel like I can tell her what I'd like from her because if she really is done, I don't think she'd care. I'm just really not sure where to start or what to do from here.
Look at the bottom of my post.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
