Yes she splits time with the kids with her ex H. I seem them a lot as we were really close over the past 6 years.
It is definitely due to childhood issues. She was essentially abandoned by a heroin addict mother and a father that was not in the picture and was raised by an aunt who eventually shot herself. She definitely has a rough past and needs to work through that and I see now through this MLC what she is trying to accomplish.
I have taken to eating healthy and meditating and taking care of myself. I have read a lot on the MLC topic and depression. It's just nice to talk with people that can relate and read that I am not alone.
M:6 Years W: 40 M: 35 Same Sex Couple 4 Children
BD: April 2015 PA with O/M: April 2015 Moved Out: November 2015