So all of this considered, I just don't know where to start with the DR steps. I can't go dark because she thinks I'm not communicating with her to begin with. I don't feel like I can do a 180, because I feel like that would create more of a disconnection and would make her feel worse about us. I don't feel like I can GAL (or at least it seems) for the same reason that I don't feel like I can do a 180. And I don't feel like I can tell her what I'd like from her because if she really is done, I don't think she'd care. I'm just really not sure where to start or what to do from here.
Any guidance would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much!
Hello madney,
First, I'd like to thank you for your service and say I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
You bring up a lot of good questions. Sometimes it is hard to know which strategy is best in a certain situation. It is easy to be conflicted when you have so many emotions and thoughts going through your head!
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
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