Ancaire, WW shared this is her home and does not want to move out. She is emotionally attached to property because her mom grew up in it (and it was to be her inheritance). But we bought it from IL at market value and remodeled entire home to take advantage of what it offers now to a young family. As for me, this is home (like W). I feel I did not turn my back on MR so why should I have to move out. Also, cost of living (rent) is very high (and moving further out to neighboring cities is killer with the commute).
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If she is indeed having an A with OM, right now, she needs to lose the benefits of being married.
W told me she has nothing to lose other than finance support. So I am trying to let go by having her contribute to cost of living and think of savings.. in the end she would be better off too since she is a spender and has acknowledged she has no concept of a budget.