Scrant, split up the Financials asap. I dodnt, and I spent nothing while living with my sis. She would even let me buy food. Meanwhile, my joint account dwindled and then when she fiked we only had 2000 left. She had the checkbook and I trusted her. Then I had to start selling my possessions to pay rent.
You have to protect yourself. It's hard, it [censored], but let her see what it's like without your support.
Sorry to be glum. Just my experience. Be strong and good luck
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....