No more. Even if procrastinating bankrupts us, I'm sticking to my 180 of letting H be the leader. I've discovered he is VERY good at this, once i back off.
YES! This is the biggest lesson for me in MY situation, as well. It feels SO much better too, when they have taken responsiblity for things like vacations, etc. And YOU deserve to be taken care of!
I learn SO much reading your thread. And I am going to follow your lead in listing the positives, etc. Keep it up, SLOWLY!
