Reality is my middle name

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Hi Gwen, nice to see an update from you. You often kindly post on others sitches, so it is good to see you posting on your own.

I'm sorry to hear that H is still running. I find the lack of questions about medical things incredible. It does show how far removed from usual behaviour people get. I know people say the lack of interest in the children is hard to take.

I think, whilst this may be him now, it hasn't always been him and won't always be him. My guess is something will change at some point - but it takes a lot for many MLCers to start looking inward.

As for you, it sounds as though you are moving forward with the practical side of things - but what about your most important question? Looking forward, who would you like to be? What would you like to be feeling, doing? Who with? It's useful to have a look at these questions I think. MLC, whilst unwanted, does present opportunities and if we can take them, our lives can become even better.

Take care and keep posting xx