H texted me this morning. He never texts me. But the D papers confused the heck out of him so he gave them to me. I made post-it notes for each page so he knew what to do.

The back of the packet was a paper to waive the 90 day waiting period. I put a post-it note on there that I refuse to sign that one.

That drew him to text me...


H: why do you want to drag out the divorce?
(I waited 4 hours to answer)

Me: I understand why you would think that. That is not my goal. I am 100% on board for the divorce.

H: Then why not sign the waiver to get it over with

Me: It will be over with soon enough, once you file.


I dont know why I wont sign that stupid paper. But legally, I get 90 more horrid days. AFTER I get served. I am keeping them.


I have looked at each one of your suggestions job when answering. I cant thank him for this, but other than that I think I stuck to what you said.

My PMA is steady as a rick right now. He can serve me any silly papers he wants. I will be fine no matter what.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!