My DB'ing is always more of 'stay away from the W', rather than interact with her.
I can fake it sometimes, and actually succeed some times. It's the times I fail miserably at DB'ing that I realize I'm setting 'us' back.
For the $$$ I'm spending on the IC, they sometimes give you the crappiest advice. I'm going to have to buckle down and finish the DR book, and then re-read it.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)