Gmum, I think it is past time to just talk to a lawyer. You have to see what your options are. You can make an educated decision then and not just rely on his words.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!