I have let her go I do not have any control over whatever she is going to do So why are you asking us? Of COURSE the best thing is to let her go. So just do it.
Moving to my mums will give her space but this will not help to make things better as I doubt anythng will make things better now It isnt about "making things better". Try again. Should I move out to your mom's place?
I should instruct a solicitor and tell her I am going to to move things forwards to where it is going to go to Are you [censored] kidding me? Why would you do that? HAS ANYBODY RECOMMENDED YOU TO DO THAT? ANY. SINGLE. PERSON?From everything I can tell, you are not interested in a divorce at this time. So why the hell would you do the work for it?
Try again. Should I instruct a solicitor to move forward with a divorce?
No point in telling her I am sorry for trying to save the marriage ...just laying guilt on her Yep. Got it.