Hey,

I ended up texting W after I picked up gifts for kids that I offered to get to help out and get. She wanted to know when I got them. She texted back with a thank you for getting them. And to remind me that she has her weight loss event that night. So I picked up the kids and she calls, give me options about dinner and asks about the kids and that she shouldn't be too late as the event is near by.

So I watch a movie with the kids and put them to bed. W is not home yet. I wait a little then start to watch the movie I was going to ask if she wanted to watch. 20 min into the movie she comes home, I tell her what I am watching and she just goes back up stairs. Movie was funny and I am laughing my head off. it was good to laugh.

I go to bed and she calls me to the spare bedroom where she sleeps to talk about tomorrow, Kids have a Christmas concert and she want to meet at our house 2 hours early before it starts. Good time to ask about gifts if I wanted to. She tells me her parents will meet us at the school. I also notice she left her phone down stairs like normal, so that was a relief.

This morning I say good morning as she came down stairs. It is more comfortable with these greetings, at first I had to force myself. I say good bye to kids and W, W says good bye to me.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016