About the gifts, Normally W and I would get them gifts. Normally We would get them gifts from the kids. W has told me she and her brother are going together to get her parents a gift. Normally It would be me and W and her brother going together on a gift. She told me this in a round about way asking about a tv she was looking at getting. She did not offer me to go in on the gift and I did not offer.
I was not sure about asking about gift for them so I just decided that I was on my own. Gift giving is not easy for me. Spending money on gifts is difficult for me. This would be a 180 for me.
So how will it look when FIL and MIL get a gift from W and BIL and my name is not there.
Yes I am avoiding the discussion with my W about gifts and just going ahead and getting gift for them. I just feel like W would think I am an fool for asking about it. In the past W took care of buying all the gifts and she just put my name on the tag with hers. I think if I ask it will almost be R talk. It is almost getting to the point I should ask just to be sure.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
