Slow and steady .. Only way to get through the fog

[Lifes Twists]

Hi Cali,

Unfortunately this is all part of the path we chose to try and save our marriages. Like you, my wife has health issues along with depression that I am blamed for. Nothing I can do about it nor can I take on ownership of it. The biggest issue in all this is the depression that they suffer from. I have learned through all this that depression is not truely understood by the medical community. They put people on medication for it without even being able to test to see if it is the correct thing to do. It is mostly trial and error on the part of the doctors to try and help the patient who suffers from depression.

Step back,take a deep breath and look at things more clearly. Don't take ownership of your wifes issues, only your own. remember there will be a happy ending for you if you take care of yourself. Who knows what that happy ending will look like. It may be with your wife, it may not be. Only time will reveal that answer.