I want back to the gym last night did I hr in the treadmill
I woke up this morning and I felt so much better for the exercise
It will only be useful if you are constant.
Little bit sad this morning not wanting to turn this back in to a thread about my W however I saw a post on her facebook You just have, you also just went back to NO GAL or detaching, you also are persuing and snooping. Worst is you KNOW this is wrong but you dont seem to care.
Put a frog into a vessel fill with water and start heating the water. As the temperature of the water begins to rise, the frog adjust its body temperature accordingly. The frog keeps adjusting its body temperature with the increasing temperature of the water. Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog cannot adjust anymore. At this point the frog decides to jump out. The frog tries to jump but it is unable to do so because it has lost all its strength in adjusting with the rising water temperature. Very soon the frog dies. What killed the frog? Think about it! I know many of us will say the boiling water. But the truth about what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when to jump out. We all need to adjust with people & situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust & when we need to move on. There are times when we need to face the situation and take appropriate actions. If we allow people to exploit us physically, emotionally, financially, spiritually or mentally they will continue to do so. Let us decide when to jump! Let's jump while we still have the strength.
She started posting things on her facebook shortly before she gave me the first bomb I think another rhombus is coming and she is planning in telling me that she wants to sell the house People post things and change profiles on whatsapp because they are calling out, wanting attention. She has many reasons for doing this, but you should not care. Why you still think about it after what we told you and your pompous posts and fancy phrases full of philosophy still reflects weakness from you and worst still you are happy to acknowledge it and continue hoping something will change for the better.
What do you think I should do or say FFS G ... Read 3 pages back ... she wants to be left alone. She does not want to discuss anything with you. We told you ... you said you had to drop it ... you wrote about moving forward the new you ... bla bla bla. I see its still cr@p.
Do I say anything to her about seeing the post ? Sure, tell her youre snooping her FB page. I think that should get her closer to you and demonstrate you are past your controlling issues.
Do I give her more space offer to move to parents as I feel this is going to give us the space we both need. What do you mean give her more space. BTW Nice line "I feel this is going to give us the space we both need". She wants space from you and you want her space. You are still kidding yourself.
Cut back all communication only talk with her if she talks to me first so no persuading at all Why do you keep writing these lines down only to talk about the complete opposite or do the complete opposite on your next post? Who are these messages for?
I do not want to risk loosing my share of the house Have you seen a lawyer about this, are you following his advice?
Any advice would be great LOL Nice one!!! you have received what? 900 posts of advice to whch you have followed none. What do you want advice for if you NEVER follow it? Ghost
