So one moment you said to her you would be patient....and you would be there for her....she didn't respond

So next minute you ask for a commitment to working on the M

Your whole post is pressure, pressure, pressure..... No patience at all.

Read it again......and no more R talks

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16