So, some new info to share. Had a phone call from my MIL. Found out some things that my W has been spinning. Apparently my wife had said to her mother that she was hurt that sometime this week we had a conversation and I was "distant and not emotionally" available during the conversation( read detachment). This is after my wife has told me that she did not want to SHARE emotional conversations with me (said "that's not your role right now") So I stopped. Completely. Also, in my MIL's conversation with the W, the W seems to be under the impression that the OM (who is married for 10 years, has 2 kids, and a new mortgage) is going to leave his family sometime after the holidays/new year for my wife. Whaaaaaaaaaat? I said, you've got to be kidding me. I really think it may be time to seriously consider filing divorce. Any thoughts here would be appreciated.

Last edited by NateG79; 12/17/15 05:35 AM.

Me:36
W: 27
D2
T10
M:2.5
Filed D 1/14/16
BD: Sep 15
A Discovered: 11/17/15
She moves out 11/19/15