The only thing WH has is to accuse you.when one finger points, four point back.
When someone accuses another as a projection then actually they are acknowledging their own desires and weakness. If they say you are mean, stupid, ugly, abusive, mad then it's their own behaviour which is being discussed by them. So the contempt they appear to show for another is a reflection of the disgust they have for themselves. Abusive behaviour is weakNess, cruelty is destructive for the soul of the destroyer. Only those with very serious personality issues are unaffected by it. And in that case one wouldn't want an R with such a person.
Not acknowledged, the projector fails to see the obvious.
WH knows the truth in his subconscious, that is leaking. A good answer is "we both know that it is yourself you are referring to"
My WH said "I know I have issues", my response "that's your choice not to deal with them"
It's easier to carry on having issues than to deal with them, ultimately we carry our issues with us, move to a new R without evolving or dealing with them and they emerge in the new R.
The great thing about working on ourselves is that we can resolve many parts that trouble us. It isn't about only improving our R or our M it is about resolving ourselves.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 12/17/1505:17 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
