December Evolution / Taking a stand.

[Painter]

Ancaire, I'm so very sorry for everything you are going through.

I've had some very nasty remarks and contempt from H over the last few years in relation to my chronic illness, and I think it's another part of vilifying us to be able to push us away without feeling so bad about what they're doing.

I think it's the same reason for telling you to move - your presence is a reminder of how bad he is behaving, so he wants you gone. The anger you see, is really frustration over how he feels about himself.

Don't take it personally, it's really not about you. But keep safe!

And I would tell your L about OW's criminal background. It may come into play at some point so she should know if she doesn't already.