123mich - I just read through all of this thread, but not the first. Can you tell me why you two are living in the same house? I'm kind of lost about this one. If she is indeed having an A with OM, right now, she needs to lose the benefits of being married.

I just want to start there, if that's ok?

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti