Hi everyone - Been an interesting few days Forcing myself back to reviewing positives and negatives, and keeping focused on goals.

Positives

+ H has been arranging evenings/dinners out with his visiting work mates. This is somewhat of a new thing, and he's been very attentive, including me in confidences etc

+ I've had terrific 3 days at work, our main client was in town, lots of compliments on the work we have done so far

+ Discovered Betsey's analysis of crazymaking, and found resonance. Lots to think about, some of my problems are definitely in my head

Negatives

- H continues to have daily conversations, emails with OW. He claims no meetings since 6 weeks ago, but who knows

Goals for the weekend

* We have a packed social diary - outing with H's work team, breakfast with family and lunch with friends. I WILL focus on enjoying the moment. No baggage from the past, no predicting the future

* Paperwork - with all this emotional drama, we've neglected the filing for some 6 months - we've promised each other 2 hrs of filing this weekend

* Fill H's love tank - I think his LLs are quality time and words of affirmation, though his PT has been awesome lately. I WILL continue to fill his tank.

Off to check up on the rest of the gang. Have a great weekend, dbers. Hugs, slowly

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