In fact I could have written what a said words for word. You are his rubbish, and he see there will always be a connection in his warped head.
So you need to work inside your head, like I did. Dating is more than jumping a man. It's about being out with mates like my Sunday dinners, it's about getting dressed up and going to a mates house for wine. Date your self.
Any true man, will wait until they know you well if possible.
Although in my case I was the blokey one and jumped bf, it's was tooooooooooooo long between drinks.
I was sent in to a minor spin yesterday as xh2 brother is in town. Saw his car and given it has plates that stand out i noticed. It's was short lived and thought of a plan if ran into him which I knew is unlikely. The plan is more about me having a go to idea in case I do have to Impletement it. It will then appear natural.
It's a sort of hello, great to see you how been.... Blah blah few mins and if things get stuck or yucky, then I'm sorry I really need to go.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26