Hey pink answered some of your stuff on my thread.
But it's tough when you have kids to stay detached. Xh1 he helped with that he threatened my life every time I saw him for years about 3-4 so that helped enormously.
Xh2 is a manilputalor big time, he even charmed the mediator. I had to nc no kids made that easy and we just don't move in any of the same circles. Technology helps, caller id emails only to one address I see only at home and I changed my routine by one degree.
It's easier and easier.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
