To a degree, yes I do feel less than at considerable amount of time.

Yes this is a hang over from xh2 who's main complaint was that I had self worth that didn't need his major input. I was more than Independant enough to just do my thang in a hay seed farm life way.


It's is also a thing that comes from work life I work in retail and as you might well be aware customers have the right to decided if we measure up and complain. I have some complain I made an off hand jokey type comment about some they bought or the way I sneezed and how I handled that event ie, not being apologetic enough to the customer.
In that regard of late there has been a big smear type campaign at work of those who want the heat of them. Therefore they make up stuff. I'm finding very clever ways to show my actions, as by standing up for one self in that regard we are called argumentive if we put our side. Our side is also not believed as its in managements interest to say x was tardy so now Ive spoken to x, she is making bulling complaints.

Also pink some of those not measuring up stories on your thread where to show those other girls who's hubbys called them hoes, that is not that uncommon and it has no cutural boundary or even country of orgin boundary. The question we should have asked when we were conpared to somthing is how does our h have knowledge of what a street walkers qualities In the ml dpt are?

And to those girls to understand that's their h justification for their behiavours of cheating etc in the longer term to make you out to be bad rather than own their share. To deflect of them onto you thus diverting the Balme and responsibility.


Thru this site and some other friends I have worked some clever ways to actually show in a my word against someone else's that I do the right thing. Which there has been a smear campaigning from xh2 and a gsslighting program that's made me look like I had some credibility issues. Those things take time to deminish.

The gossips I love, for a couple or reasons it's always funny to hear others version of your story which is often very far fetched that it is very funny. I get a giggle that those people who think they don't care spend a lot of time just shooting the breeze about me and other things which show they do care and have an interest.

Talking of stories, one gossipy story if true suggested I was completely right about xh2 he has not changed one little bit and is still up to some of his not very nice tricks. It's no wonder he protects such nasty behaivour onto others the guilty feelings he carries must be a huge burden. I can't help but have some sympthy.

But nc nc nc nc nc it's just working for me.
Oh and as for sexy nickers I spend up big time sometime ago, when bc came onto the scene.

Another fact pink I'm only a few years younger than you!

Last edited by Ggrass; 12/16/15 11:35 PM.

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26