dday, like what the others suggested, I said nothing. I had said so much that there was nothing left to say.
Prior to the D, I did tell the X that I love him but I will set him free. Like you, I couldn't see a way out and I was tired. I figured that this might just be a journey that we had to make. Tying him to my side was just making him struggle more for freedom.
Will you be feeling emotional? If you think that you can say what you want to say to your W calmly, then do what you think you should do. If not, perhaps an email or letter?
Yes, do plan for something after the D to take the edge off. I had gfs with me for a karaoke session...
Last edited by Grlonfr; 12/16/1511:30 PM.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
