I thought that might be the case. I couldn't think of any other reason you wouldn't have told him. In this case, you are absolutely doing the right thing.
Hi Scrant you are relatively new? Yet able to provide support and good advice. Thanks for your support. I have been very slow to accept what I cannot change. I am loving my kids and living my life (trying to anyway). How are you doing?
Tx - thanks for asking- well he is living with his younger woman who he works with and ignoring his kids so....... Well now his kids are ignoring him so is he starting to see/feel some of the consequences ? I don't know. Does he know that his daughter has a bone tumour or his son had to have stitches? No! Why? Because he doesn't ask. And he sure doesn't tell!!!He keeps his life a secret from all his family
Incredible. Does he realize what a horse's ass he looks like to everyone in the world except his young skank? It's hard to believe he could wish to make his entire life into a joke.
Hi Jpeg. Just trying to pay back some of the fantastic support I get here. Since I've realized that I don't know what she is doing and thinking at every moment I 've focused on me and S. It isn't always easy and I catch myself thinking about her but I just accept that I don't know what will happen in the future. We can only do what is best for ourselves and those we love. Keep strong.
Tx- no he doesn't. He is getting a lot of positive affirmation from all his divorced friends and younger crowd that he is socializing with. They all think it is great - he deserves to be happy - she is hot. This is the feed back that he gets. So .....
H not coming to cook dinner. None of the kids would/wanted to be here for it. So I texted him (cause they were not going to) and said none of the kids would be home. He replied promptly with. - ok another time? I did not/ will not reply
Great job JPEG, I know it's hard cause you want to believe that they want more. You really have great kids!
How do you know for sure that he is getting those positive affirmations? Anyone that condones that type of behavior has something seriously wrong with them.
I would like to believe that most people do not look favorably on a man that leaves his wife and children.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
If my H's friends knew the truth I'm not sure any of them would support his decision to leave. They (WAS) tell their warped version of the truth. If his friends still supported him after knowing the truth, then I don't want anything to do with them.
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Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
Julie and Di I think others have accepted H and OW cause he told a warped story - he told people WE grew apart and WE were unhappy for years and he made it sound amicable - that WE decided it just wasn't working anymore. But that wasn't the life I was living. I was growing closer to H we were building our retirement home and spending so much time together planning our future H was finally giving time to me and the kids and then BD out he walked "needing space" He has devastated our family - the kids - his parents - my family
