Ancaire I had planned to inform H if the diagnosis of the tumour was malignant but it is benign. Also D 18 did not want me to inform her father. I have been with her from the start with occasional pain to increasing daily pain, dr apts etc. we are waiting for her to see a surgeon. H knows none of this Once we know the treatment options I will ask her again if she wants H to know. This is the D who walked in on him and she was adamant about him not knowing
