Hi slowly, just read through some of your thread here...I check up on you but don't post much....your sitch sounds so familiar though, and I'm every bit as torn and confused as you...H is loving and warm but still does hurtful things (OW) .... hard to keep on sometimes isn't it?

I think I need to try to find time to go thru more of underdogs threads....
take care of yourself, it sounds like you have many positives.


been around awhile!