dday, getting out of the muck

[gs9]

dday
keep moving on. You have become such a stronger person. Do not let her hold you back. If she catches up you will be great, if she doesn't you will be great! The result for you is the same regardless of her decisions.

My D finalizes on Friday. Sounds like the process is a little different but the result the same. I'm not sure if this is helpful for you but have a plan. Know what/if you're going to say anything prior. Plan something for the day also.

I plan to say nothing to her and then go to work. My DB coach told me last week that if there is anything I haven't said that I will regret not saying then I should say it. I've realized I've said everything I need to say. She knows I will not chase her by my actions not my words. She knows I love her by my actions and not my words.

For me....I will say nothing more.

It will be so much better for you on the other side. No more limbo and moving forward