I would like to explore some of your beliefs on weight. By the way I am a Catholic too. So I get some of the Catholic guilt.

So only the thin and the beautiful can be happy?

Or is it that being thinner and beautiful is just the prequiste to be happy?

Extending this

Can Jellyb only be happy if she is thin?

Is keeping the weight the obstacle to happiness or the rationale for staying unhappy? Are you saying If I hang on to my weight then I can say that is why I am unhappy?

What would happen if you lost the weight?

Could you compromise with yourself, lose say half of it then reevaluate? Say you are doing it for your health, rather than your happiness?

What exactly is possible for you in this?

Do you think this is the reason sweet sadness has become more vocal of late, so you can't ignore her, is she encouraging you to change and uncomfortable about the fact she would like more. I certainly think so, all of your posts in the above are so obviously fight backs against the shift. It's going to happen, embrace it.

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Last edited by Vanilla; 12/16/15 09:47 PM.
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